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Event Descriptions:
Open Events
Workshops
Members Only Events
Special EventsEvent list - a daily planner look at all the upcoming events
Calendar - a calendar based web page that shows upcoming events
Past Events listing - all the events that were and could be again if the interests is there
The Community Centre schedule may change without much notice. Please check it regularly for changes and additions. ID may be required to ensure all attendees are of legal age. Adults are welcome to attend all Community Centre events, unless otherwise specified in the description of that event. Feel free to attend any and all that interest you, but leave those that don't to others. Please be open-minded to all topics offered at the Centre. If there are topics you'd like to see added to the calendar, feel free to write to us!
Cold drinks are available for a nominal fee at the Centre for your convenience. Please consider purchasing from the canteen to help defray the costs of hosting events at Breathless.
BDSM General Discussion Group
BDSM Movie Screening
Bi Discussion Group
Card & Games Night
Membership Orientation
Monday Munch
Polyamory Discussion Group
Polyamory Potluck Dinner
Lady's Domaine
Women's Only Munch
BDSM General Discussion Group
Open Event, any adult may attend (ID required);
Free (donations welcome)
3rd Thursday of the month 7:00pm - 9:00pm - Note new Time!!!!
January 21st, Show and Tell:
Bring your most unusual toy to show off. We’ll also discuss some of your favorite pervertibles.February 18th, Three’s Company...or is it?:
Adding a third, polyamory, leather families...What does it all mean? Pros...cons? What if it’s not right for you?March 18th, Psychological Play:
Elements of Psychological Play; Mind fucks, ethics and communication to effectively and safely engage in this type of play.April 15th, Role Playing:
What is it? How do you get costumes? How do you get into the headspace? Who plays which role? Who decides?May 20th, How to Negotiate a Scene:
How to approach someone. Negotiating skills, how to ask for what you really want. Set limits (even if you don’t know them).June 17th, BDSM 101:
Back to basics. What is BDSM? Where do we do it and who do we do it with? Etiquette, etc. Bring us your questions!This discussion group is geared to anyone with an interest in BDSM and is open to all adults. There will be one facilitator that will keep the discussion on topic, but everyone's input, experience and stories are welcome to help flesh out this event.
Cold canned drinks and snacks are available at the canteen and donations are most welcome to help defray the cost of hosting the discussion groups. Please be generous..
BDSM Movie Screening
Open to any adult. (ID required)
Donations requested but not required
1st Thursday of the month 7:00-10:00 p.m.
The Story of O: The Series
Starring Claudia Cepede as "O", Paulo Reis, Nelson Freitas, and Gabriella Alves
Produced and Directed by Ron WilliamsNovember 5th: Episodes 1 & 2
December 3rd: Episodes 3 & 4
January 7th: Episodes 5 & 6
February 4th: Episodes 7 & 8
March 4th: Episodes 9 & 10The world famous and notoriously erotic novel is sumptuously produced for the first time for video audiences, adhering closely to the book that shocked the world. Published in 32 countries, "O" is now in its 44th edition in the U.S.
"The STORY of O" shamelessly relates the sexual adventures of a young and beautiful Parisian fashion photographer, "O," who wants nothing more than to be a slave to her lover, René. She will do anything he bids to win and keep his love.
One night, in his Rolls-Royce, René takes "O" to a mysterious but magnificent chateau outside Paris, commanding her to knock on the door and follow whoever answers ... no questions asked. Thus begins "O's" descent into a world of sexual daring, where she and others are led by Sir Stephen, a demanding and willful master. The test is severe ... sexual in method, psychological in substance. She willingly accepts the progressive debasement forced upon her as she is subjected to a multitude of sensual and sexual situations ... all designed by Sir Stephen with one goal in mind ... to drive her to sexual distraction.
The BDSM movie screening night will fall on the 1st Thursday of each month, and is open to the public. Lots of comfy couches to snuggle into to watch a movie on the big screen (we have an overhead projector now!) We will show some popular BDSM movies and perhaps a few somewhat obscure BDSM films for your viewing pleasure. If you have a request for a specific title, please let us know!
Bi Discussion Group
Open event, any adult may attend (ID required)
Free
4th Thursday of the month 7:00pm - 9:00pm - Note New Time!!!
For details check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Ottawa-Bi-Town/
January 28th Love and Sex:
A look at a variety of relationship types, and how they differ by gender, dynamics, preference, and need.February 25th Coming Out:
Talking about bisexuality with an existing partner, a new partner, coworkers, family, friends, etc.March 25th, Bi 101:
Open Q&A session to discuss issues such as self-acceptance, labels & definitions, and local resources.April 22nd, Alternative Lifestyles:
Talking to your partner(s) about polyamory, kink, group sex, exhibitionism, voyeurism, etc.May 27th, Bi-dar:
Stories and suggestions on how to recognize other bi folk, overcome shyness, and put out your own vibes!June 24th, Safety First:
Sharing ideas and tips for online profiles, meeting in person, casual sex, and more.
This monthly event is hosted by the Ottawa-Bi-Town yahoo group, and is intended for any bisexuals: male, female or transgendered. Attendees should be bisexual, bi-curious or bi-friendly/supportive and willing to learn from the group.
Card & Games Night
This special event is for couples and singles, male and female, any orientation (ID required)
$5/person, open to any adults (non-members welcome!)
1st Friday of the month Starts at 8:00 p.m.
Back Again in October 2nd
Dec. 4th
Jan 1st - cancelled
Feb. 5th
March 5th
Want to play Texas Holdem? Poker? Romoli? How about euchre, cribbage, or crazy eights? How about Cranium? Trivial Persuit? Pictionary? Any game goes! The club will supply cards, cribbage boards, poker chips and a select few board games. If you want to play something specific, bring it along with you. For betting games, poker chips will be available. No betting allowed.This is also a great time to socialize. Plenty of comfy couches around the room available to relax, get to know new people and enjoy the atmosphere. Also an ideal place for your first 'face to face meeting' with someone you've met online. Safety in numbers, but discrete enough for most people.
As this is a public social event, there will be no alcohol on site, but cold drinks can be purchased from the canteen. Potluck munchies if you wish. No genital nudity allowed.
Membership Orientation
Open event, any adult may attend (ID required)
$30/personNext Orientation - Friday Feb. 12th 7:00 - 8:30 p.m.
This orientation is required to become a member of Breathless. The orientation starts promptly at the time stated, but attendees are required to arrive 15-30 min early for registration purposes. This also gives people some time to chat and meet other future members. Although the orientation takes approx. 90 min, additional time is often required for questions and answers. If you choose to become a member of Breathless you will be required to read and sign a waiver, as well as fill out a membership form. The $30 Membership fee will be collected at the end of the evening. Once you have become a Member you can attend any Members Only event that applies to you.
If you are unknown to the owner, you should be known to another Member who will vouch for you (they should write to the owner and receive a response before you attend the Orientation). This is to ensure that all Members have a genuine interest in alternative lifestyles and is not there to cause trouble. If you have not been vouched in or do not know the owner, you should attend some other open Community Centre events and become known before attending an Orientation.
General Information:
Date: 2nd Monday of each month
Time: 5:30 PM to 9 PM
Cost: $5 minimum required donation, money for ordering out (optional)
Who: Any adult - ALL singles, couples, genders, orientations, experience levels, interests/fetishes
Dress: Whatever is comfortable for you, including street clothes and fetwear. NO nudity.Hello and welcome to the Breathless Monday Munch! In the interest of providing an accessible venue that is an alternative to the weekly Wednesday Cock & Bull OALN Slosh, Breathless will host a Monthly Monday Munch on a trial basis.
Enjoy the relaxed atmosphere and meet other kinksters, those already involved within the community as well as all of you just coming out. Freely chat in this informal and non-public venue. Dress in whatever would make you feel comfortable. Just remember that this event is not a members-only event, so NO nudity allowed. Plenty of opportunity to meet, mingle, and share fantasies.
If you wish, bring your supper (a microwave is available), or bring money to order out. You're also welcome to pick up something on your own, and there are many restaurants along Bank street you can choose from. Snack items and non-alcoholic drinks will be available to purchase from the canteen.
Hope to see you there!
If you have any questions, concerns, comments, or ideas, please contact LadyPearl via FetLife conversation or email (LadyPearl@BreathlessOttawa.com).
Breathless Monthly Monday Munch - Q&A
Since I have fielded quite a few questions regarding this munch, below is an attempt at minimizing those questions -- but please do contact me if the below information does not answer your question(s).
What is a munch?
A munch is a casual lunch or dinner with other local people who have an interest or experience in BDSM (Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadomasochism) and/or Fetish. Most are held in restaurants or bars, where conversation/actions/dress must be discrete.
The munch is a NON-PLAY gathering meant for socializing. A great (and safe and welcoming) place to test the waters, provide that first step for newcomers, perhaps meet a potential play partner(s), negotiate for things that may happen at another event, and get to know other kinksters and the local community better. So if someone asks you to play, please don't. If you want to ask someone to play, please don't. (See rule #4 below).
Why isn't the munch in a public venue?
After discussions with several Breathless members, it came to light that some people were uncomfortable with the public aspect of the Cock & Bull sloshes. They have observed people walk in, look around, look perturbed, then walk right back out. There is also the aspect that voice level must be moderated because of vanilla diners at the other tables.
Having the munches at Breathless provides the privacy and security that some new and nervous (or experienced and private) people appreciate. Everyone can relax and be their naturally kinky selves :)
Why should I attend?
* Meet new people with similar interests and mindset
* Be able to talk freely without fear or judgement
* Ask questions about BDSM, Breathless, and whatever else tickles your fancy
* Socialize and enjoy the company of fellow kinksters
* Use it as a safe place for a first meeting
* Find out about other kinky events going on in the communityWhat REALLY goes on at the munch?
It really is just a bunch of people, hanging out (either sitting on the couch or standing), enjoying good conversation (kinky or otherwise), and eating (hence the term "munch").
The first half hour is mainly settling in, making your $5 minimum donation, choosing what you'll eat (if you didn't bring your own supper), buying a drink/snack at the canteen, and socializing. Most people order from the menu, but that is certainly not required. Some people come straight from work and are in office attire. Most dress very casually. As of yet, nobody has come in fetwear(grin).
After the food is delivered and everyone has gorged themselves (lol), everyone gathers around the couches and introduces themselves. You are encouraged to share as little or as much as you want to share. Many times there is light-hearted ribbing and laughs, and spontaneous conversations frequently erupt.
What if I see someone I know?!
EVERYONE at the Munch is kinky (it is our PRIVATE space). So if you recognize someone you see, relax -- they are there for the same reason as you. Be aware that many people use scene names and hold their real name strictly private -- so do NOT run up and shout out their real name (it isn't for you to share with others).
What age range attends?
So far, there have been representatives for each decade - from 18+ to 50+. Don't let age deter you!
Any advice for newbies?
(Plagiarized from Lord Omy, grin)
Regardless of what end of the paddle you're on, if you're new, proceed slowly. It's taken you 18+ years for you to come out ... a few more weeks isn't going to affect anything. Ask/look for someone with more experience than you that you're comfortable with. You'll find that 98% of us are more than willing to share our knowledge.What can I do to help?
If you're wondering what you can bring or do to help out, a snack item or after dinner sweet is always welcome and appreciated. Coming early to help move furniture and setup would be great as well. Send me an email (contact information below) to let me know.
When is the next munch?
Munches are held every second Monday of every month (including Thanksgiving Monday in October). It will continue to be posted in this forum, on the official Breathless website, and in the calendar listing of local events available at the munch.
Rules & Etiquette1. All attendees must be 18 years of age or older - NO exceptions.
2. Privacy of each attendee must be protected. That means not sharing who attended, what they said, and what they did.
3. Everyone is equal. Touching without permission or behaving in a "dominant" manner is unacceptable. If someone's behaviour is making you feel uncomfortable, please notify the hostess.
4. This is not a play party or fetish event, so no scenes or playing.
5. No sexual activities other than a hug/kiss in greeting/farewell. Cuddling on the couch is permitted, but don't go overboard.
6. No drugs, either using or soliciting.
7. This is not a pick-up or dating service.
8. Vending is allowed and encouraged, but please notify Lady Pearl ahead of time.
9. No photography without first notifying the hostess and gaining express permission of those being photographed.
10. Be yourself and enjoy!!!A Word About Safety
* If you are a submissive, you are allowed to say "no" or to ask someone to stop. Regardless, there are no roles at the munch, and you should not feel pressured or obligated to do anything. Communication is key, and the more experienced person (be it Dom/me, sub, or switch) has the greater responsibility (in my opinion). (Rule #3)
* If you think something is inappropriate, or you witness something that seems inappropriate, I encourage you to bring it to my attention. All will be dealt with as equitably and confidentially as possible. (Note: Do not be a victim and blame only yourself)
* Generally, it's probably not a good idea to leave the munch with someone you don't know very well. There are other alternatives to getting to know someone better. A public place is usually the norm.Contact
If you have any questions, concerns, comments, or ideas, please contact LadyPearl via FetLife conversation or email (LadyPearl@BreathlessOttawa.com).
Polyamory Discussion Group
Open event, any adult may attend (ID required)
Free - Donations accepted!
2nd Thursday of the month 7:00pm - 9:00pm - Note New Time!!!
For details check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Ottawa-Polyamory/
February 11th, Poly 101: CANCELLED
What the heck does NRE stand for, and what's a secondary?March 11th, Poly activism:
Is it needed? Should we be trying to change Canada's laws?April 8th, Poly support night:
You're having issues, come let us help you get through it. We won't fix it for you, but at least we won't be telling you your problem is being poly.May 13th, Poly break ups:
how do you do them well and how do you not have to divide your friends and partnersJune 10th, Poly Q&A:
Come out and ask about what's on your mind these days?This monthly event is open to all adults who are in or wish to be in a poly relationship, are interested in learning about polyamory or are supportive of others in this lifestyle. For male, female or transgendered folk of any sexual orientation. Polyamory is loosely defined as this: Poly = many and amory = love. So "many loves". It's when members of a committed relationship have secondary partners in a loving and open relationship.
All adults welcome! Hosted by the Polyamory Ottawa yahoo group.
Open event. Any adult welcome. (ID required)
Free (Donations welcome)
2nd Sunday of the month 6:00pm - 8:00pm
Cancelled unitl further notice
Potluck is the 2nd Sunday of every month and is open to non members. (ID required)
Polyamory Ottawa yahoo group is hosting this event, and any adult over 18 is welcome to attend. It's designed as a simple social event where anyone in a poly relationship or those interested in this lifestyle may attend. Please check the calendar for any last-minute changes for this regularly-scheduled event.
Bring your favorite potluck dish(s) and join the group. (Please note, there is a microwave oven only) Bring your own serving dishes/spoons for your dish(s). Cold drinks are on sale at the canteen. (sale of canteen items helps defray the cost of hosting this event).
Lady's Domaine
$5, open to the public
Next Meeting - TBA
$5 min. required donation, canteen
Attendees: Open to the public for dominant women 18 years and older. All female dominants with all experience levels are welcome - as are switches - so long as they are in Top space during these events. Femme, butch, dyke, bi, straight: doesn't matter, as long as you are female (or identify as female) and are Dominant - this group is for you!
Topic: Open Discussion Night - Come and share information, questions, and concerns with other Dommes. Give input for future topics/demos of interest.
Description: It is a group for 'all' women interested in being, or who are, Femme Dommes. It's a group where experienced Femme Dommes help new Femme Dommes just starting out in the realm of BDSM.The first half is discussion, and if there is time, the second half will be some hands-on practice. Please bring your own devices for the second half.
This monthly event will float around the calendar, offering a different type of event each month for Female Dominants only, unless specified otherwise. This is a way for the newer Dommes to gain some knowledge and experience and ask questions of other, more experienced Dominants - with no fear of looking bad in front of their submissives. It also gives the more experienced Dommes a chance to share their skills and stories with the less experienced women.
Women Only Munch
6:30-8:30
$5/person, Open to All Lesbian Friendly Women Adults, Including TransgenderNext Meeting - TBA
Ottawa Leatherwomen Helping Leatherwomen, "Oh Hell," is having it's first women's only Munch in September! It is a Potluck (finger foods only ) Munch, being that Potlucks are a Lesbian Cultural Tradition Don't cha Know! It's going to be very casual, and just basically going to focus on connecting, brainstorming, and suggesting ideas, formats, etc. It's a lesbian friendly event, open to all lesbian friendly women of all sexual orientations including Trans Women.The Goal of Oh Hell, is to create women only events, workshops, networking opportunities, for Leatherwomen of all sexual orientations to connect, make friends, find mentors, play partners and support Leatherwomen owned businesses and artists.
For now the Munch is once a month, until we know if the Sisters want more and the first two will be on the Second Tuesday of September and October, at Breathless, 318 Lisgar, between 6:30pm and 8:30pm. Unfortunatey this space is not Accessible at this time.
For more info, Contact Playful at mspet@gmail.com
BDSM Play Party (1)
BDSM Play Party (2)
Play As You Like Night
Luscious Large Lovers
BDSM Play Party (1)
$20/member ($30 for guest of member)
2nd Saturday of the month 9:00 pm - 2:00am
Jan. 9th
Feb. 13th - Change!!! - Special Event Winterlube (See below)
March 13thThis monthly event falls on the 2nd Sat. of every month and is a pansexual event, open to all genders and orientation, singles and couples. Dress code in effect.
This event is for the practice of BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadomasochism). The Club will offer a social area and a play area where you can use the equipment provided. Remember, you are responsible for your own safety! There are no DM's at these events. Please supply your own drop cloth and sharps container if needed. No street clothes please! Fetwear is best, or at least basic black.
Regular Play rules will apply: Please read the posted rules upon entry. Sex and Insertibles will be allowed at this event. It is not intended as a 'sex-on-premise' event, such as a swinger party, but to allow the inclusion of sexual acts within a D/s or S/m scene.
A small buffet will be served at around 11pm, and is included in the cost of admission. Non-alcoholic drinks are on sale for a nominal fee, and regular members may BYOB. If you intend to play, play early and drink afterwards. Alcohol and BDSM play do NOT mix!
BDSM Play Party (2)
$20/member ($30 for guest of member)
4th Friday of the month 9:00 pm - 2:00am
Jan. 29th
Feb. 26th - Kinkamania - Kinky Wrestling Theeme (see below)
March 26th
This monthly event falls on the 4th Fri. of every month and is a pansexual event, open to all genders and orientation, singles and couples. Dress code in effect.
This event is for the practice of BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadomasochism). The Club will offer a social area and a play area where you can use the equipment provided. Remember, you are responsible for your own safety! There are no DM's at these events. Please supply your own drop cloth and sharps container if needed. No street clothes please! Fetwear is best, or at least basic black.
A small buffet will be served at around 11pm, and is included in the cost of admission. Non-alcoholic drinks are on sale for a nominal fee, and regular members may BYOB. If you intend to play, play early and drink afterwards. Alcohol and BDSM play do NOT mix!
Play As You Like Night
$20/member ($30 for guest of member)
3rd Saturday of the month 9:00 pm - 2:00am
Jan 16th
Feb 20th
March 20th
This is for men and women to explore their wild side! Explore your interest in alternative lifestyles along side others who are exploring theirs. Swinging, BDSM, Bisexuality, Massage, Intimacy, etc all under one roof! Come and enjoy the intimate atmosphere at Breathless! BYOB (must be checked at the canteen). Dress to impress!
Here's our chance to mix with other kinky and open-minded folk and flirt and play openly with or near others. This event is sex friendly, and latex condoms and lube will be provided as well as massage oil.
Luscious Large Lovers (LLL)
Next Event, Saturday Jan., 23rd
Time: 9pm-2am
$20 per person
This private event is hosted by LLL and is open to members of LLL as well as Breathless Members.
This event welcomes lovers of large ladies, and provides a warm, welcoming, friendly, sexual atmosphere. Couples as well as singles are welcome.
Please visit our web site, and join us at a local munch. Even drop us a line. We'll answer any questions you might have.
http://lllovers.bravehost.com/index.html
If you are not a member of Breathless you must attend an LLL Munch to gain an invitation to this event.
Erotic Massge Night - details to come
Kinky Wrestling
Winterlube
New To You Mixer
Kinky Wrestling - KINKAMANIA!
Friday Feb 26th
Play practice 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. (free)
Play party 9:00-2:00
Cost: $20 (member), $30 (guest of a member), $5 discount to previous attendees
No matter what level of experience you are, this is a great chance to practice or learn moves, holds, and disengages. Mr_O will be there to offer his skills, knowledge, and experience to those who are interested. Please keep in mind that this is practice only - no matches permitted.
Open to members, guests of members, and non-members. If you are not a Breathless member, you must be vouched for by a member of good standing and sign a waiver before you can participate. Otherwise, you may just observe.
NO GENITAL NUDITY
About mr-O:
For the past 5 years, mr_O has been attending events mostly in the Montreal BDSM community. He is a purple belt Jiu Jitsu instructor at a school in Montreal, with previous background in Judo and other martial arts. Training and competing in this sport for the last 9 years, mr_O won the Advanced Masters Light Weight belts at the Canadian Open (for both the Gi and no-Gi competitions). He has also won or placed at many other smaller competitions.
The Play Party (9:00 p.m. to 2:00 a.m.)This will be similar to a regular BDSM play party, but with the wrestling theme. Note the discount of $5.00 if you've been to a previous wrestling event at Breathless. As always, donations are appreciated and will help offset Breathless operating costs.
Please dress appropriately in basic black or fetwear - NO street clothes. If you like to have fun dressing to the theme, some ideas include, but are not limited to: cheerleader, sexy mat-cleaning attire, referee, coach, wrestling tights, paramedic, security, Hulk Hogan, Ultimate Warrior, The Undertaker ... :) Can anyone even top THEFERG's awesome outfit?!
A few play stations (i.e. suspension point, spanking horse) will still be available for BDSM play in the semi-private area at the back (near the washrooms). BDSM play is encouraged, but it is not in any way required!
A light buffet will be served at around 10:30 p.m., and is included in the cost of admission. Non-alcoholic drinks and snacks are available to purchase from the canteen, and regular members may BYOB. Keep in mind that if you intend to play, play early and drink afterwards. Alcohol and BDSM/wrestling do NOT mix!
NOTE:
1. This is a members-only event. You must be a member of Breathless, or a guest of a member of good standing, to attend. If you are not a member, and would like to be, check the Breathless website on how to become a member.
2. Please follow play party rules and etiquette.Wrestling and Struggle Play (during the play party, 9:00 p.m. to 2:00 a.m.)
Mats (brought by mr_O and MzTina -- thanks!) will be laid on the floor in the main play area, with comfortable seating all around for spectators. There will be wrestlers of all sizes and experience levels. Be sure to wear anything you feel comfortable wrestling in, or little to nothing at all (negotiated with wrestling partner). Wrestling is encouraged, but it is not in any way required!
To get the ideas flowing, following are examples of possible elements to be negotiated/mentioned before a match:
* Safety: please mention any health issues
* Type: straight grappling, submission wrestling, kinky wrestling, tag team
* Win indicator: pin for 3 count, tap out, verbal indication of submission, best 2 out of 3, just for practice
* Handicaps: one-handed, grip inhibitor (mitten), start already pinned, 2 or more against 1More Wrestling:
This is the kinky part of Kinky Wrestling :)
Ideas for kinky wrestling:
* Strip match (first person naked or near naked)
* Pain match (first person to cry out/submit when punched/slapped)
* Bondage match (first person tied)
* Kinky match (spanking, tickling, hair pulling, punching, biting, etc)
* Stakes match (winner insert appropriate word(s) loser -- i.e. spanks, fucks, gets served by, gets a massage from, gets a lap dance from)
* Play match (bottom is wrestled down and tied before being dragged off to a play station) ... hot Hot HOT!!! :)Wrestling Rules & Protocols:
1.You must sign up (at any time throughout the night) with your wrestling partner(s) to determine order of matches. There will be no nonconsensual wrestling allowed! All people in the match must be aware of and accept your challenge/play.
2. Each match will be refereed by LadyPearl, mr_O, MzTina, or other volunteers.
3. Please pre-negotiate your match(es) ahead of time. See suggestions above for ideas. You must inform the referee what everyone involved has agreed upon BEFORE you start your match.
4. One match at a time. Each match will be 10 minutes long, but you do not have to use the whole time allotted. Believe me, 10 minutes is plenty of time!
5. You must stay on the mats. At the referee's discretion, you may be told to restart in the centre.
6. No jewellery. Piercings must be removed or taped down. Removal of eyeglasses is recommended. Collars are okay if it's not sharp or can catch on anything.
7. No toys - unless previously requested and approved by the referee.
8. Clean up after yourselves. Use the wipes provided if there is excessive sweating.Warning: Due to the nature of this event, you will probably witness violence, course language, and nudity (wicked grin). There is also the potential for silliness, taunting, sexual dominance, and loud clapping/cheering. The suitable "fight" music (i.e. Eye of the Tiger, Burning Heart, etc) will be played throughout the night. If ANY of these things might bother you, then perhaps you might think about attending another event. Otherwise ... "Let's get ready to rumbllllllle!!! (said in the voice of Michael Buffer - professional sports & entertainment announcer)
Note:
This is a members-only event. You must be a member of Breathless, or a guest of a member of good standing, to attend. If you are not a member, and would like to be, check the Breathless website on how to become a member.Toy Try, hosted by Maxita
Sat February 13th, 7:00-9:00p.m
Free - 18+
Come to this open event to check out the toys and equipment Maxcita is bringing for your exploration! A party setting but not a play party, this event is open to anyone over 18 and open minded.
Feel free to wear fetwear but no dress code in effect for this portion of the evening. (if you're not a member of Breathless, you will not be allowed to stay for the party at 9). A great way to experience something new in a safe, non threatening environment.
Winterlube
Sat. February 13th 9:00p.m. - 2:00a.m.
$20 for Breathless members / $30 guests of Breathless members
Dress Code: Latex is encouraged but not mandatory! PVC, lingerie, fet wear or nude are all good. No street clothes.
Welcome to the latex Valentine's play party! Wear as much - or as little - latex as you dare. Come and try the vacbed and vacsack for the ultimate in rubber bondage. Complete with a shining station - come lube up at Winterlube!
This event is for the practice of BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadomasochism). The Club will offer a social area and a play area where you can use the equipment provided. Remember, you are responsible for your own safety! There are no DM's at these events.
A small buffet will be served at around 11pm, and is included in the cost of admission. Non-alcoholic drinks are on sale for a nominal fee, and regular members may BYOB. If you intend to play, play early and drink afterwards. Alcohol and BDSM play do NOT mix!
New To You Mixer
Tuesday Feb., 23rd, 7:00 - 10:00 p.m.
$5.00 - Open to Public
This event is open to everyone who would like to meet new people or just mingle with those you rarely get a chance to talk to. There is no formal format, no set topic, no seating lay out. Food, drink and friends!Munchies will be provided. Fun games to get people talking, such as "What Fetish Am I?". Non alcoholic beverages will be available at the canteen for a fee.
No Alcohol! No Play!